The Leadership Conference for Women Religious (LCWR) placed a call for volunteers to work with refugees in El Paso, Texas. Sister Barbara Kuper, PHJC and Sister Kathleen Quinn, PHJC have responded to the invitation and are serving there from January 3 – February 3, 2015. Here is an update about their first week experience as told by Sister Kathleen.
Our main desire in volunteering to join others in El Paso was twofold. We wanted to experience at the ground level what the new immigrant was challenged with and to be of assistance in serving their needs. We had some idea of how our services could benefit their situation, but we knew we had much to learn.
We left Chicago, Midway Airport assisted by Sister Michele and we were on our way. Both of us had a feeling of adventure with a little trepidation deep within and a real desire of being of service. When we arrived in El Paso, Eina Holder, Director of Nazareth Hall, welcomed us graciously. We then went to the Sisters of St. Joseph Convent and felt right at home after meeting Sisters. Louanne, Kay, Bernadette and Esther along with Pauline a lay missionary. Sisters Louanne, Kay and Bernadette were volunteering at Nazareth Hall, Pauline volunteering at the Columban Mission and Sister Esther our “hostess with the mostess” who is the “house mother” and all so gracious in welcoming Barb and myself.
Words composed by Martha Aiken, OP set us on our Journey as the three Kings/ Wise Women set on theirs. “Just as the Maji followed the star and were drawn by a light as a source of their HOPE, so we too are drawn to see more clearly and ask ourselves, ‘What draws me?’ ‘Who calls me?’ ‘Where will my life’s journey take me next?’ Are we open and ready to see the light in another’s eyes, in their longing for hope and in their life’s journey? Are we willing to travel afar, to experience unknown territory, meet people from all walks of life and from other cultures to find our God? We have all said our “yes” through our vows and to each call that has come to us because of them. In so doing, we embody and radiate God’s love for us all.” So we, too, have asked ourselves these questions as we begin our journey in El Paso at Nazareth Hall in welcoming the Guests who come from the Immigration department.
As we began our first week, we would like to walk you through our initial experience at Nazareth Hall and the many delightful and challenging experiences we had. Eina Holder, a very generous person and also a volunteer, gave us a thorough orientation of what was expected of us. She was very direct in that we are not to ask the guest about their trials and tribulations in coming to the USA. When the guests come, they are graciously welcomed “Bienvenido” and given the information that they are free to move around the building and even leave the building, but to let the receptionist know. They are told very clearly that they are not in detention and that they would be assisted in their needs to be processed and to get needed transportation along with a shower, clothes if needed. It is also explained that all the persons assisting them are volunteers and that everything given is through the kindness of the various churches in El Paso. That Nazareth Hall is being used through the generosity of the Sisters of Loretto. These guest have papers from immigration that they may travel to family, friend or whoever will assist them. They are to report to the immigration place in three months in the location they are situated. They are interviewed for basic information and then are assisted in their travel arrangements. Some of the guests leave within the hour, if they have contacted a ride, some within 2-3 hours and some remain overnight.
Our responsibilities vary according to the needs of the guests. We prepare the lunch for the guest and the volunteers. Each evening volunteers from the various churches in El Paso bring in food for 20-25 persons. This is four days a week. The food left over from the evening meal is then prepared for the lunch the next day. This is where we come in. After checking all food available, we place in the oven to be reheated. This has been a challenge, as for two days this first week the food did not heat up. We did not realize this until we began to serve it, as the outside of the pan was hot. By the end of the week we had the food situation under control, with a little sweat and words I won’t repeat.
Before the food preparation begins, we clean rooms, mop floors, clean toilets, showers and then anything we are asked to do like cleaning up the toy room, sorting toys, checking sheets, pillow cases and all bed wear. We have enjoyed the children especially and Barb tells the story of the little boy who she got a warm coat for and he was so happy with it, he would not take it off. We have received many guests from Honduras, Guatemala and Mexico. The expression on their face when they first come is one of fear and anxiety. As they hear the welcome and experience the kindness of all, we receive many “gracias” and their expression is more relaxed and sometimes very joyful..
We have noticed that we have many women with their children, but often the husband is maintained in detention. When inquiring about this, we are told there is very little rhyme or reason for this, and no definite reason is given. When this happens, the wife asks to visit her husband, and arrangements are made for this. Beth, a volunteer is most helpful in driving them to the detention center. We have four detention centers in El Paso.
We ended our week with a farewell dinner at “Amigos” restaurant as Sisters Kay and Bernadette were leaving to go back to Montana on Saturday morning. Very delicious meal was enjoyed by all and a delightful conversation.